|A warm breeze blows across an open field. The tall blades of green grass and brightly colored wildflowers that fill this open space bow their heads gingerly, allowing the heated air to rush by. Then, as if orchestrated, these precious gems one by one return to their original position, standing proudly, basking in the afternoon sun. They have returned to their center and are maintaining the delicate balance between their internal needs and the environment. They are living in their wholeness.|
We as humans also must bend and flow to the demands placed upon us by our environment. On a physical level, this is referred to as homeostasis. Homeostasis is defined as the body's ability to maintain an inner balance in the face of changing conditions of our environment. This is a very important concept to understand if we are to understand the true nature of our being. We are constantly responding to external stimuli. The temperature of our bodies, for example, must be held within a narrow temperature band. If our environment is significantly heated, the body automatically responds, and we begin to perspire.
When we don't treat our bodies as we should, when we ignore the telltale signs of aches and pains, our bodies try to compensate. Internally, we are like teeter-totters; the many systems of our bodies are players in a perpetual dance, moving tte--tte with a mutual goal - to maintain balance. When we continually ignore the warnings our bodies give us and push our delicate systems to their outer limits, our bodies break down, and we experience disease. Our bodies have now become compromised, and it will require much work to assist them in getting back into balance. That is, if it is not too late.
To carry the metaphor forward, when balance is lost, the tall green grass and wildflowers that once moved and swayed in that warm breeze lay down on their sides, then struggle to raise their heads to the sun.
But we are more than just a body. We are Spirit that has chosen to exist within the physical, filled with thoughts, feelings and emotions. How are we as unique individuals affected by our environment on these levels?
When we are in balance, we are able to have, feel and experience emotions. To want, to need, to laugh, to cry, to hope, to desire, to despair, to pity - the ability to know love or joy from the depths of our hearts and souls. These feelings are a direct response to external stimuli. When we see an awe-inspiring vista, hear a good joke, or receive a tender kiss from someone we love, how do we respond? For many of us, we own these feelings. We feel breathless as we look at the stunning view, we laugh deeply and whole-heartedly at the joke, or we feel the warmth, love and caring of our partner.
But what about the other emotions that we experience, emotions such as fear, anger, loneliness, jealousy or pain? What do we do with these feelings? As a society, we have been taught that some feelings are good or appropriate to express. We have been trained from an early age to repress, suppress and deny feelings of anger, sadness or pain, as if they were bad. While it is okay to express emotions of happiness, joy and love, we may not take permission to express emotions that are perceived as being negative. But aren't these "negative" feelings valid feelings also?
Instead, what do we choose to do with these feelings? We stuff them. We invalidate them. We get busy. We try to take our mind off our problems. We fight ourselves so that we don't have to experience these feelings. We shove them deep into our being, pushing them deeper and deeper into ourselves, until after a while, we can no longer see them. We think "Well, I'm over that one." But are we really? Did we actually release the emotions or did we just hide them from ourselves?
When we suppress instead of experience and release our emotions, we go into resistance. Resistance puts unnecessary stress and strain on the body. It takes enormous amounts of physical energy to maintain the dam that we have created in order to hold back our emotions. Then we don't have to look at them, feel them or experience them. We add bricks to an energetic wall that surrounds us until we have no feelings, good or bad, negative or positive at all. It is not that we have stopped the flow of our "negative" emotions - we have stopped the flow of our emotional energy altogether.
When we give ourselves permission to express all our feelings (both positive and negative), when we allow them to run their course, we always feel lighter, fresher and more centered. When our emotions are balanced, we can experience all of them to their fullest. It is easier for us to own them and then process them quickly and effortlessly. They are allowed to flow through us. We breathe them in, we experience them, and we let them go. It is the beauty of our existence.
In the words of Oscar Wilde, "Find expression for a sorrow, and it will become dear to you. Find expression for joy, and you will intensify its ecstasy." My friends, this is emotional homeostasis.
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Naturopathic Physician Dr. Rita Louise, Ph.D., is the author of the books Avoiding the Cosmic 2x4 and The Power Within. It is her unique gift as a medical intuitive and clairvoyant that illuminates and enlivens her work. Let Dr. Louise help you bring health, healing and wholeness back into your life. Medical Intuition & Energy Medicine Certification training classes are now forming. Visit soulhealer.com or call (972) 475-3393 for more information.