"Sexually, the ENTJ is robust, imaginative and enthusiastic. Their natural instinct to lead will be apparent in this arena as well as other areas of life, and they will lead their partner on creative lovemaking adventures, where the focus is on mutual learning and affection sharing. They're likely to expect sex on a relatively scheduled basis."
VERY TRUE!! This is one area where my creativity really comes alive and I nurture that, trust me!
You've pretty much described me! Unfortunately the local men just don't get that or ME! I'd rather use a vibrator than have disconnected sex with a guy - it's more fun!
Posted by: Christine | July 24, 2009 at 12:26 AM
I'm an ENXJ, but this definitely suits me. Not only am I a sexual person by nature, but my sexuality is very intellectual in nature. Rather than "OMG big boobs, gotta' fuck'er", I'm more interested in erotica, semi-taboo 'story lines' & foreplay, and overall a very mentally-active 'form' of sexuality. Not to say I don't love the person's physical body, but the mental and emotional components are required for me to enjoy sexuality (I again refer to my enXj-ness).
To simplify a bit though;
I DEFINITELY want sexuality on a pretty-much regular basis - as long as the emotional-connection between my parter and I is healthy & strong (once again, I refer to my enXj type).
I am very adventurous & creative with sexuality (as I was expressing in the first paragraph). Simple "Omg so hot" sexuality 'can' satisfy me, but it's nothing compared to intellectual/mental stimulation.
And finally, yes; I definitely lead when it comes to sexuality. Not to say that I wouldn't enjoy letting my partner lead, even often, but I'm always going to have the inclination to lead. And do so quite naturally.
=).
And for 'just in case' reasons, I'm reachable at ENXJ_questions@hotmail.com. It's ONLY for those interested in meaningful communication though. Not necessarily MBTI-related communication, but it has to be meaningful.
Posted by: Brian | July 23, 2009 at 08:50 PM