When I started this blog 14 years ago, I was FULL of questions - What is the meaning of Life? Why am I here? Why now? Why this place? What is my purpose? Why this family? Why do I have the Life that I have? How can I find peace? If I do find peace, WHY? If I don't, why NOT?
Over the years, I have been given answers & wisdom. I will always have questions because that's who I am, but the big ones answered themselves simply by living and so, I no longer ask "WHY".
These pages and random spewings chronicle the evolution of my subconscious mind, my consciousness, and more importantly, my Soul.
Now I want to share the wisdom I received from many forms of Guides, Angels and Sages. I often share such with sarcasm, humor and in-your-face brutal honesty - so be prepared - but my intentions are always pure.
My purpose here is to simply shine my light on your dark corners. It is up to YOU to either battle or dance with the shadows that are created. Either way, I accept YOU, shadows and all!
"YOU SHOULD NEVER EVER DOUBT WHAT NO ONE IS SURE ABOUT". ~ Willie Wonka
One of my favorite human beings has left the physical realm. I don't even like to call him a comedian - he was a cultural philsopher and satirist who could make us laugh at our own stupidity. There will never be another like him and I will miss him.
The first day of school our professor introduced himself and challenged us to get to know someone we didn’t already know. I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder. I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being.
She said, “hi handsome, my name is Rose. I’m eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?” I laughed and enthusiastically responded, “of course you may!” and she gave me a giant squeeze. “Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?” I asked. She jokingly replied, “I’m here to meet a rich husband, get married, have a couple of kids…”
“No, seriously,” I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age. “I always dreamed of having a college education and now I’m getting one!” she told me.
After class, we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate milkshake. We became instant friends. Every day for the next three months we would leave class together and talk nonstop. I was always mesmerized listening to this “time machine” as she shared her wisdom and experience with me.
Over the course of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever she went. She loved to dress up and she reveled in the attention bestowed upon her from the other students. She was living it up. At the end of the semester, we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet. I’ll never forget what she taught us.
She was introduced and stepped up to the podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her 3 x 5 cards on the floor. Frustrated and a little embarrassed, she leaned into the microphone and simply said, “I’m sorry, I’m jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey is killing me! I’ll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you what I know.”
As we laughed, she cleared her throat and began, “We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing. There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy and achieving success. You have to laugh and find humor every day. You’ve got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die. We have so many people walking around who are dead and don’t even know it. There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up. If you are 19 years old and lie in bed for one full year and don’t do one productive thing, you will turn 20 years old. If I am 87 years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything, I will turn 88. Anybody can grow older. That doesn’t take any talent or ability. The idea is to grow up by always finding the opportunity in change. Have no regrets. The elderly usually don’t have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets.”
She concluded her speech by courageously singing the song “The Rose”. She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives.
At the year’s end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago. One week after graduation, Rose died peacefully in her sleep. Over 2000 college students attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example that it’s never to late to be what you might have been.
Remember - growing older is mandatory; growing up is optional.
We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.
God promises a safe landing, not a calm passage. If God brings you to it – he will bring you through it.
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